After three years of dating, Gwyneth Paltrow and Brad Falchuk are officially married. The actress showed off their wedding bands on Instagram. While the ceremony was a low-key media event, it was star-studded. Among those who attended were Robert Downey Jr., Robe Lowe, Steven Spielberg and his wife, and Cameron Diaz and her husband Benji Madden. Pulling off a private wedding of their own, Cameron was reportedly somewhat involved in the planning. “Cameron pulled off a private wedding even though the media found out about it before. Gwyneth wanted the same privacy.” People reported. “Gwyneth has been giving her updates and asking for advice during the planning.” Read also: Gwyneth Paltrow’s Goop pays $145,000 over jade vaginal-egg claims One person who couldn’t make it though, was Gwyneth’s ex-husband, Chris Martin, who was performing at N.Y.C.’s Global Citizen Festival. Although this is the actress’ second marriage, it was her first wedding, as she previously eloped with Chris Martin. “I’m excited about everything! I’ve never had a wedding before. So even though I’m 45, I sort of feel like a 21-year-old,” she shared when she first announced her engagement. It looked like she got the wedding she wanted. “It was gorgeous—the most beautiful wedding I’ve ever seen,” Gwyneth’s mother, Blythe Danner, who walked her down the aisle, said of the event.